5 Signs Your Husband Is Cheating
If you are suspicious that your husband may be cheating on you, let him make as many mistakes as possible as these are all ammunition for you. Do not confront him until you have sufficient evidence to prove your suspicions. You’ll find below some of the most important signs that your partner is cheating on you.
1. A large majority of cheaters will do so in their own beds at some point during a relationship. If you think your partner may have cheated on you in your own bed, or may still be doing it, here is a good tip. Make your bed in a particular way that is different from the normal way you do it, if your husband has been using at he will have made it afterwards, and you will be able to tell.
2. Trap him. You should use one of your female friends that you husband does not know to help you with this. Ask your friend to hit on your husband either in a bar or at a party, and have her record the conversation. The best way I found to do this is to have your friend call your answering service as she is talking to your husband. This way you will have solid proof that your husband is cheating.
3. Your husband will more than likely take full advantage of the fact that you are out of town. So you can trick your husband by telling him that you will be going away for a weekend, be sure to give him details of when you are leaving and when you are expected back. Say goodbye, find a good vantage point from which to view your house and wait, you should not have to wait too long.
4. You should be keeping a close eye on all financial transactions that your husband carries out. Check all credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, receipts and check everything for unusual transactions. These are sometimes obvious like motel rooms or gifts that you never received. However he may be devious, so check all cash withdrawals, chances are your husband is paying for things with cash to avoid a paper trail, if you notice that the same sum of money is leaving your account at the same time each week, then you can be pretty sure your cheating husband is using it to pay for a room with his new partner.Make note of any strange dates and times.
5. Monitor both his cell phone and your home phone. If you have access to his cell phone bill, watch for repeated calls or calls of long duration and the times. Watch how he uses his phone, does he answer it then move out of your earshot, does he take it everywhere with him, including the bathroom. Note whether returned calls to you are extremely delayed without verified reasons, or if he always turns off his cell phone when he’s with you.
If you have no concrete information on your husband you can always play the bluff, try saying something like, I know what you’ve been up to and I will give you one chance to own up and tell me the truth. You may be able to get the information you need, but chances are he will just lie to the bitter end.
Rest assured though that he will screw up sooner or later you just need to be patient and watchful. The easiest way to do this is to hire a private investigator, however, this can be expensive and will also add to your guilt if your partner is not cheating. My advice is to start off by looking for these signs then if you feel it is necessary move onto the next step.
