Pickup Artist Fashion Pt. 2
(continued from part 1)
There was about a couple of times that I did the peacocking. I did that to see if it worked because I heard that other guys were doing it.
I felt ridiculous when I went out and was totally incongruent with my personality.
Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something really basic – like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best pickups occurred.
At the same time, I’d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.
This make me think… that maybe this is not on how much the clothes cost or how flashy they are…
Maybe there’s something else aside from that.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage, or balance these two things.
The first thing is, never seek approval from women. You are totally toast, if a woman can tell you that you are trying to impress her or make her like you.
So if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting women’s attention, they’ll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You DON’T have to look like a pick up artist.
It’s better to dress reasonably, and not put too much thought into it.
However, you don’t want to look sloppy. You want to present yourself in the best way you can.
This gets back to self-expression.
You already have a sense of what kind of guy you are, what your “scene” is, what you think is cool.
Do not change that.
Instead, improve it, with these simple tweaks.
This isn’t a rocket science. Wear colors that appeal to your skin tone and hair color. Go to an upscale men’s clothing store, and ask someone about this. Or look online.
Next thing, make sure your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated. A woman shouldn’t have to worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure your clothes fit well, meaning, they ACCENTUATE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Square your shoulders and wear shirts that narrow your waist.
Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Put on a shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself – nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a nice haircut. Shave, or don’t, but figure out what looks great and take it all the way.
Another thing…
Accessories should adhere off you loosely, and have a look of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”
I don’t want to talk too much because that’s a whole other topic because that’s a whole other topic. Just use your intuition with this one.
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