Finding a girlfriend easily
When trying to find a girlfriend, there are no strict guidelines to follow. You cannot say that all the girls will react the same to the strategies you use on them. Some will be positive and others negative. On the other hand, some things must be done to have greater chances of success. These things will ensure no mistakes are done and days of loneliness will be history. For example, the wrong approach of a girl the first time will automatically rule you out as a potential boyfriend. So stick around and find out what will make you a star in the business.
In the streets you could meet many girls, but there is one you are really dying to have. If she is from around and you see her often then that’s good. You will have ample time to make your move. You should not approach her immediately, but try to get her attention on you. The first time you meet her, say hello and pass. Make sure you smile! You should do that the second time you meet her. After several Hellos, maybe she will greet you first. That’s when you will know that she has noticed you.
The next time you meet, you could pretend you are looking for something and maybe she could show you. Observe the way she looks at you with those pretty eyes and her tone of voice. I know, it will be hard to observe all these things when she is so close and the fragrance coming from her is bewitching, but don’t rush. All that could be yours, if you take it slow. If, on the other hand, she is in a hurry, cut short the conversation and move on. She could be in a hurry and you are holding her up. There will be plenty of time for more conversation.
You could meet her another day and you bet that this time it will be easy to start a conversation. You might want to invite her for a cup of coffee right there or set up a date for later. Unfortunately, she might say no. This could mean “no- get lost!” or it could mean “maybe, try again when I am not too busy and I don’t want you to see me as desperate.” If she says yes, that’s great! She is genuinely interested. You will have made a major breakthrough.
This is the time to polish up on your conversation skills. It would do you no favor to have nothing good to say once on the date. However, since it’s a first date, keep it simple and allow her to talk. If she isn’t the talkative type, keep the conversation going by finding out what you have in common. While you are doing this, don’t ask her too many questions. You are not conducting a job interview so what’s with the questions? If she isn’t talking, she could be shy or studying you. Tell her hilarious stories about yourself and if she smiles, wonderful!
It’s time to say goodbye guys. I hope you enjoyed our little girl talk but I’ll see you later! Hope you get loads of girlfriends!
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